are you trying/hoping for a boy?

i really hate that question! I hate that question even more when it is followed by "since you already have a girl". I have come to perfect my answer though, i simply respond with "no, i have 2 beautiful daughters. We dont care if we have a boy or another girl, we just want a healthy baby to take home this time". I hate that people assume that we need to have a boy to be a happy family.